) 武汉大学哲学学院心理学系, 武汉 430072
收稿日期:2020-04-08出版日期:2021-05-15发布日期:2021-03-30通讯作者:谢天E-mail:thanksky520@126.comTrue self in east and west from Guanxi perspective
LIANG Yanfang, XIE Tian() Department of Psychology, School of Philosophy, Wuhan University, Wuhan 430072, China
Received:2020-04-08Online:2021-05-15Published:2021-03-30Contact:XIE Tian E-mail:thanksky520@126.com摘要/Abstract
摘要： 真实自我反映了个体行为与其价值观、信仰、需求等内在状态的一致性程度, 分为特质真实与状态真实。在辨析了真实自我与自我认知、自我概念清晰性、自我一致性、正直、真诚等相关概念的异同, 并梳理该领域已有理论后, 提出真实自我表现或实现的文化差异, 即西方文化中的真实自我是自主动机驱动的, 而东方文化中的真实自我是关系要求驱动的。未来可以将“关系化”作为现象场, 以儒家传统思想为理智资源, 从理论建构、社会现象(新兴网络社交平台、社会变迁), 以及结合具体的研究方法(如跨文化比较、突显情境变化的方法)等方面开展研究。
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