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帮忙失败后我会被差评吗?好心帮倒忙中的预测偏差

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尚雪松, 陈卓, 陆静怡()
华东师范大学心理与认知科学学院, 上海 200062
收稿日期:2020-08-04出版日期:2021-03-25发布日期:2021-01-27
通讯作者:陆静怡E-mail:jylu@psy.ecnu.edu.cn

基金资助:* 国家自然科学基金项目资助(71771088)

“Will I be judged harshly after trying to help but causing more troubles?” A misprediction about help recipients

SHANG Xuesong, CHEN Zhuo, LU Jingyi()
School of Psychology and Cognitive Science, East China Normal University, Shanghai 200062, China
Received:2020-08-04Online:2021-03-25Published:2021-01-27
Contact:LU Jingyi E-mail:jylu@psy.ecnu.edu.cn






摘要/Abstract


摘要: 好心帮倒忙事件时有发生, 帮忙失败的施助者往往认为受助者会苛责自己, 因而可能不愿再次提供帮助。这种预测准确吗?通过6个研究( N = 1763), 对比施助者对受助者反应的预测和受助者的实际反应, 发现了施助者在好心帮倒忙时的预测偏差:他们高估了受助者的负面反应。而在帮忙成功时, 施助者未出现预测偏差或预测偏差的强度较弱。导致该预测偏差的原因是, 施助者更为关注自身的能力, 以为受助者也关注自己的能力, 而受助者更为在意施助者的温暖程度。


表1施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究1)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度
成功 5.41 (1.61) 6.12 (1.05) F(1, 137) = 9.23, p = 0.003
失败 -0.14 (2.83) 2.01 (2.67) F(1, 140) = 21.86, p < 0.001
受助者的满意程度
成功 5.31 (1.52) 6.26 (0.97) F(1, 137) = 19.18, p < 0.001
失败 -0.44 (3.14) 2.10 (2.67) F(1, 140) = 26.85, p < 0.001
受助者的再次求助意愿
成功 6.14 (0.80) 6.35 (0.61) F(1, 137) = 2.85, p = 0.094
失败 4.61 (1.10) 5.38 (1.34) F(1, 140) = 14.22, p < 0.001
受助者的推荐意愿
成功 5.89 (0.94) 5.93 (0.93) F(1, 137) = 0.07, p = 0.792
失败 4.52 (1.12) 5.15 (1.09) F(1, 140) = 11.67, p < 0.001

表1施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究1)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度
成功 5.41 (1.61) 6.12 (1.05) F(1, 137) = 9.23, p = 0.003
失败 -0.14 (2.83) 2.01 (2.67) F(1, 140) = 21.86, p < 0.001
受助者的满意程度
成功 5.31 (1.52) 6.26 (0.97) F(1, 137) = 19.18, p < 0.001
失败 -0.44 (3.14) 2.10 (2.67) F(1, 140) = 26.85, p < 0.001
受助者的再次求助意愿
成功 6.14 (0.80) 6.35 (0.61) F(1, 137) = 2.85, p = 0.094
失败 4.61 (1.10) 5.38 (1.34) F(1, 140) = 14.22, p < 0.001
受助者的推荐意愿
成功 5.89 (0.94) 5.93 (0.93) F(1, 137) = 0.07, p = 0.792
失败 4.52 (1.12) 5.15 (1.09) F(1, 140) = 11.67, p < 0.001


表2施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究2a)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度
成功 4.80 (1.71) 5.64 (1.42) F(1, 252) = 17.99, p < 0.001
失败 -2.34 (2.02) -0.44 (2.34) F(1, 273) = 51.74, p < 0.001
受助者的满意程度
成功 5.01 (1.61) 5.60 (1.62) F(1, 252) = 8.37, p = 0.004
失败 -2.26 (2.23) -0.76 (2.44) F(1, 273) = 28.34, p < 0.001
受助者的再次求助意愿
成功 5.77 (0.90) 5.79 (0.94) F(1, 252) = 0.01, p = 0.915
失败 3.31 (1.28) 3.94 (1.49) F(1, 273) = 14.15, p < 0.001
受助者的推荐意愿
成功 5.45 (1.06) 5.56 (1.00) F(1, 252) = 0.73, p = 0.395
失败 3.59 (0.94) 4.25 (0.98) F(1, 273) = 32.56, p < 0.001
受助者的评分
成功 0.72 (0.43) 0.84 (0.39) F(1, 252) = 4.83, p = 0.029
失败 -0.92 (0.50) -0.48 (0.56) F(1, 273) = 47.42, p < 0.001

表2施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究2a)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度
成功 4.80 (1.71) 5.64 (1.42) F(1, 252) = 17.99, p < 0.001
失败 -2.34 (2.02) -0.44 (2.34) F(1, 273) = 51.74, p < 0.001
受助者的满意程度
成功 5.01 (1.61) 5.60 (1.62) F(1, 252) = 8.37, p = 0.004
失败 -2.26 (2.23) -0.76 (2.44) F(1, 273) = 28.34, p < 0.001
受助者的再次求助意愿
成功 5.77 (0.90) 5.79 (0.94) F(1, 252) = 0.01, p = 0.915
失败 3.31 (1.28) 3.94 (1.49) F(1, 273) = 14.15, p < 0.001
受助者的推荐意愿
成功 5.45 (1.06) 5.56 (1.00) F(1, 252) = 0.73, p = 0.395
失败 3.59 (0.94) 4.25 (0.98) F(1, 273) = 32.56, p < 0.001
受助者的评分
成功 0.72 (0.43) 0.84 (0.39) F(1, 252) = 4.83, p = 0.029
失败 -0.92 (0.50) -0.48 (0.56) F(1, 273) = 47.42, p < 0.001


表3施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究4)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度
成功 5.23 (2.00) 6.11 (1.10) F(1, 141) = 10.82, p = 0.001
失败 -0.68 (2.56) 2.04 (3.16) F(1, 140) = 31.81, p < 0.001
受助者的满意程度
成功 4.90 (1.99) 5.60 (1.72) F(1, 141) = 5.03, p = 0.027
失败 -0.51 (2.62) 1.56 (3.15) F(1, 140) = 18.13, p < 0.001
受助者的再次求助意愿
成功 6.28 (0.80) 6.24 (0.91) F(1, 141) = 0.10, p = 0.751
失败 3.83 (1.32) 4.66 (1.60) F(1, 140) = 11.37, p = 0.001
受助者的推荐意愿
成功 5.89 (0.96) 5.93 (0.92) F(1, 141) = 0.08, p = 0.785
失败 4.15 (1.22) 4.93 (1.19) F(1, 140) = 14.77, p < 0.001
受助者的评分
成功 0.57 (0.41) 0.69 (0.39) F(1, 141) = 2.90, p = 0.091
失败 -0.95 (0.67) -0.33 (0.81) F(1, 140) = 24.64, p < 0.001
施助者的能力
成功 5.76 (0.85) 6.00 (0.81) F(1, 141) = 2.90, p = 0.086
失败 3.37 (1.10) 4.11 (1.29) F(1, 140) = 13.74, p < 0.001
施助者的温暖
成功 6.44 (0.71) 6.56 (0.73) F(1, 141) = 0.97, p = 0.325
失败 5.28 (1.21) 6.08 (1.01) F(1, 140) = 18.42, p < 0.001

表3施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究4)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度
成功 5.23 (2.00) 6.11 (1.10) F(1, 141) = 10.82, p = 0.001
失败 -0.68 (2.56) 2.04 (3.16) F(1, 140) = 31.81, p < 0.001
受助者的满意程度
成功 4.90 (1.99) 5.60 (1.72) F(1, 141) = 5.03, p = 0.027
失败 -0.51 (2.62) 1.56 (3.15) F(1, 140) = 18.13, p < 0.001
受助者的再次求助意愿
成功 6.28 (0.80) 6.24 (0.91) F(1, 141) = 0.10, p = 0.751
失败 3.83 (1.32) 4.66 (1.60) F(1, 140) = 11.37, p = 0.001
受助者的推荐意愿
成功 5.89 (0.96) 5.93 (0.92) F(1, 141) = 0.08, p = 0.785
失败 4.15 (1.22) 4.93 (1.19) F(1, 140) = 14.77, p < 0.001
受助者的评分
成功 0.57 (0.41) 0.69 (0.39) F(1, 141) = 2.90, p = 0.091
失败 -0.95 (0.67) -0.33 (0.81) F(1, 140) = 24.64, p < 0.001
施助者的能力
成功 5.76 (0.85) 6.00 (0.81) F(1, 141) = 2.90, p = 0.086
失败 3.37 (1.10) 4.11 (1.29) F(1, 140) = 13.74, p < 0.001
施助者的温暖
成功 6.44 (0.71) 6.56 (0.73) F(1, 141) = 0.97, p = 0.325
失败 5.28 (1.21) 6.08 (1.01) F(1, 140) = 18.42, p < 0.001



图1能力的中介作用(研究4) 注:图中系数为标准化的回归系数, **表示p < 0.01, ***表示p < 0.001
图1能力的中介作用(研究4) 注:图中系数为标准化的回归系数, **表示p < 0.01, ***表示p < 0.001



图2温暖的中介作用(研究4) 注:图中系数为标准化的回归系数, **表示p < 0.01, ***表示p < 0.001
图2温暖的中介作用(研究4) 注:图中系数为标准化的回归系数, **表示p < 0.01, ***表示p < 0.001


表4分类示例(研究5)
角色 与施助者能力相关 与施助者的温暖相关 其他
施助者 我帮了倒忙。
觉得有点愧疚, 没有帮好忙。
我是出于好心才帮忙搬行李的。
我也是好心。
是什么物品?
小孙现在心里是什么感受?
受助者 他太毛手毛脚了。
他有点粗心。
不怪小孙, 他也是好心, 感谢他。
物品易碎, 他帮我搬是好心。
我太倒霉了。
为什么电梯偏偏在修理?

表4分类示例(研究5)
角色 与施助者能力相关 与施助者的温暖相关 其他
施助者 我帮了倒忙。
觉得有点愧疚, 没有帮好忙。
我是出于好心才帮忙搬行李的。
我也是好心。
是什么物品?
小孙现在心里是什么感受?
受助者 他太毛手毛脚了。
他有点粗心。
不怪小孙, 他也是好心, 感谢他。
物品易碎, 他帮我搬是好心。
我太倒霉了。
为什么电梯偏偏在修理?


表5施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究5)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度 -0.56 (2.74) 0.82 (3.16) F(1, 121) = 6.71, p = 0.011
受助者的满意程度 -1.10 (2.55) 0.37 (2.92) F(1, 121) = 8.81, p = 0.004
受助者的再次求助意愿 3.38 (1.31) 4.06 (1.70) F(1, 121) = 6.32, p = 0.013
受助者的推荐意愿 4.03 (1.06) 4.50 (0.97) F(1, 121) = 6.48, p = 0.012
受助者的评分 -0.24 (0.73) 0.23 (0.81) F(1, 121) = 11.37, p = 0.001
质询顺序指数 0.56 (0.83) 0.06 (0.96) F(1, 105) = 8.23, p = 0.005
质询内容指数 0.42 (0.76) -0.01 (0.76) F(1, 105) = 8.24, p = 0.005

表5施助者的预测与受助者的判断(研究5)
因变量 施助者的预测
M (SD)
受助者的判断
M (SD)
差异检验
受助者的感激程度 -0.56 (2.74) 0.82 (3.16) F(1, 121) = 6.71, p = 0.011
受助者的满意程度 -1.10 (2.55) 0.37 (2.92) F(1, 121) = 8.81, p = 0.004
受助者的再次求助意愿 3.38 (1.31) 4.06 (1.70) F(1, 121) = 6.32, p = 0.013
受助者的推荐意愿 4.03 (1.06) 4.50 (0.97) F(1, 121) = 6.48, p = 0.012
受助者的评分 -0.24 (0.73) 0.23 (0.81) F(1, 121) = 11.37, p = 0.001
质询顺序指数 0.56 (0.83) 0.06 (0.96) F(1, 105) = 8.23, p = 0.005
质询内容指数 0.42 (0.76) -0.01 (0.76) F(1, 105) = 8.24, p = 0.005



图3质询顺序指数和质询内容指数的中介作用(研究5) 注:图中系数为标准化的回归系数, *表示p < 0.05, **表示p < 0.01
图3质询顺序指数和质询内容指数的中介作用(研究5) 注:图中系数为标准化的回归系数, *表示p < 0.05, **表示p < 0.01







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